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If you've just lost a loved one or a pet, this will bring you some comfort.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCdZwitrNoY

Be forewarned however that you'll want a box of kleenex close by! ]]> General http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=13 Tue, 4 Dec 2007 18:11:10 -0500 Christmas Sponsoring a Family http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=12 General http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=12 Wed, 21 Nov 2007 16:22:09 -0500 A Christmas for Children with Cancer http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=11 was a wonderful fun filled evening!

Thank you to everyone that so generously donated toys, Toys and more TOYS! We will be visiting the hospital wards soon to donate the toys we had left over.

Thank you to our Mr. and Mrs. Santa Clause, Randy & Ellie Geiser, of Justclaus.com for being the most amazing Santa team ever! They, along with Santa's brother Bob, generous donated hats, toys, collected monetary donations, brought treats for the kids and did various chores, such as helping to make it snow! Randy truly is the real Santa!

Additional Thanks to:

Kimberly Hess (tables, chairs and setting up) and her friend, as well as Diane Iannuzi, Lisa Chestnut and Hazel Gates for all their hard work and donations.

To Harvey (and Sam Wells) for so generously donating their time to provide Photography.

To Neil and Gloria Cotchonis for their support and bringing the miniature reindeer (a teacup poople dressed in a santa suit and antlers) to cheer up the children!

To Brieana Rocha and my daughter Rachel for being such great Santa's Helpers and for working with our signs at the North Pole, so we could be found...

And Thank you to anyone else I may have failed to mention. You are sure to be on Santa's NICE list this Holiday Season!

Be sure to visit our gallery to see a sampling of photos coming soon!



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It's a proven fact our emotions directly affect our body and it's responses. Think about it, if your nervous, your palms sweat. When you're scared, your heart beats faster. There is no way around this direct relation, so whether you want to believe it or not, thinking positive can help your situation.

If however it is certain beyond a doubt that cancer or another illness has taken over and you are absolutely beyond help and have exhausted all resources, then I ask that you read the following email someone sent in today, that will hopefully put a smile on your face -

A sick man turned to his doctor,
as he was preparing to leave the examination room and said,
"Doctor, I am afraid to die
Please tell me what lies on the other side."

Very quietly, the doctor said, "I don't know."

"You don't know?
You're a Christian man and don't know what's on the other side?"

The doctor was holding the handle of the door;
on the other side came a sound of scratching and whining.
When he opened the door,
a dog sprang into the room
and leaped on the Doctor with an eager show of gladness.

Turning to the patient, the doctor said,
"Did you notice my dog?
He's never been in this room before.
He didn't know what was inside.
He knew nothing except that his master was here,
and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear.
I know little of what is on the other side of death,
but I do know one thing...
I know my Master is there and that is enough." ]]> Store Journal http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=10 Thu, 18 Oct 2007 20:00:33 -0400 Rancho Santa Fe Reviews article about Grand Opening Event http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=9 why there wasn't one store that carried all the products she needed
and wanted while undergoing treatment. She promised God if he
let her live through this unbelievable ordeal, she would use all of
her knowledge to try to help others in the same situation.
Although a mammogram nine months earlier had shown she
was healthy, Suzanne, 41, was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer
in November 2004. Her doctor told her she had three forms of
highly aggressive cancer, one of which was very rare and usually
only found in much older women. Suzanne went through intense
chemotherapy and radiation treatments and six surgical procedures
over the next few years, including two partial mastectomies and
reconstructive surgery. Suzanne lost most of her hair, her fingernails
fell off and she was extremely sensitive to light. She could
barely walk because of neuropathy in her feet and toes caused by
the chemotherapy.
The mother of two survived and kept her promise to God. In
November 2006, Suzanne opened “A Pink Ribbon” on El Camino
Real in Carlsbad. The boutique carries a large selection of products
for cancer-treatment patients, such as wigs, prosthetics, books, supplements
and organic teas which are loaded with anti-oxidants. The
boutique appeals to other customers, as well, because Suzanne has
included designer items such as cocktail dresses, jeans, frilly blouses,
casual outfits, handbags, pajamas and jewelry. The store has a
relaxing atmosphere, complete with soft music and chairs to
sit and drink tea.
Suzanne has created a cozy environment where women, especially
cancer patients, can shop and nurture their physical, emotional,
and spiritual needs. She also hires cancer survivors to
ensure that her employees understand what customers are going
through. She has used all the equity in her home to start this business
because she feels driven. "The longer I can be here, the more
women I can help," Suzanne explains.
Suzanne is also helping the fight against cancer in other ways.
She is featured in a series of Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation
commercials airing nationwide. Suzanne has organized
fundraisers for cancer research, is in a San Diego filmmaker's documentary
about breast cancer and is the mission delivery chairwoman
for the American Cancer Society in North County.
Suzanne Penny's goal is to offer franchises so more women
will have access to a one-stop shop for all the products they may
need while going through chemotherapy. She said the most important
thing you can do if you are diagnosed with cancer is to have a
positive attitude. Suzanne said she experiences life differently since
her battle with cancer. "My life has been rewarded in so many
capacities; I just want to make the best of whatever time I've got
left."
A Pink Ribbon is located at 7740 El Camino Real, Suite B,
Carlsbad, CA 92009; Ph: 760-632-Pink (7465); Fax: 760-632-7466.
Web site coming soon: www.apinkribbon.com

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We hope this resource will be of help to you. If you'd like to be added to our prayer list, please
feel free to send an email to suzanne@apinkribbon.com

In the meantime, don't forget that your Guardian Angels are with you always!

You may also want to check out our Book section as we have some wonderful inspirational books that will also help you through this journey.

God Bless!]]> General http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=8 Tue, 9 Oct 2007 19:52:55 -0400 Suggestions for those in Financial situations or those being Abused http://apinkribbon.com/press/index.php?itemid=6 Every time I think I've heard it all however, I'm enlightened by yet another woman's experience, some unfortunately are not so pleasant as others.
It seems as thought each day I shed a tear. Some are happy for those that have visited us consistently and return to announce that they're in remission now - yeah! For those we celebrate. And for the rest - we brainstorm!
Lately I'm disturbed by the fact, I've had more than one circumstance, in which I found the women's husbands to become abusive - even though they never had been before! I think men are so accustomed to going into the garage to grab a tool and just fix the problem that in situations like this they feel helpless and don't know how to channel their frustrations. There is no excuse for abuse however and you need to take action immediately.
Clearly, someone enduring treatment is not going to be able to function in their normal capacities, however there are some alternatives to resolve some of the items you may not be able to address around your home right now. For example, hiring maid service, nannys, gardners, online bill paying, and food delivery services may prove helpful. Churchs are happy to volunteer in many capacities as well and many cities have volunteers for various things just waiting to be called. Let them know what your exact needs are both physically and financially. Some people are willing to take things out in trade, reduce prices or wait on payments, but you won't know unless you ask.
This leaves finances and intimacy issues... Unfortunately, the two seem to go hand in hand. When money is tight, stress is heightened and at a time when we need it most, intimacy seems to be the last item on the agenda and yet it is so crucial to maintain a healthy and happy relationship.
Regarding finances, I personally refinanced my home and utilized the equity to cover my bills while undergoing treatements. Others may need to apply for a credit card before going on leave or God forbid, if you should face losing your employment. Borrowing money from family members may also be an option for some and having friends fund raise is sometimes a viable option. Selling items from your home that have been gathering dust and functions at your childrens schools can also raise well needed money. Either way, it's a time to put on your thinking cap and to try and come up with some alternatives. What are some ways you can cut back on items that aren't essential? Whether you are creative or not, either way, you won't receive if you don't ask for help. This was a hard thing to do for me, but I learned that this is a time in which it is crucial for survival. Everyone needs help at one time or another so right now, if you have cancer, tell yourself "it IS all about me and it's ok to let someone help me for once!" Realize this is a temporary situation, so the more proactive you can be, not only will it give you something to focus on but in the end, you'll be happy you did. For example, in refinancing, you may be able to roll in other debt on top of getting the cash out you need, lowering your monthly out go over all and possibly lowering high interest rates. Just be sure to read, ask questions and compare information before settling with a lender.
An excellent resource for ANY issues you may be having is the American Cancer Society. They can be reached 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Whether you need a resource referral in your area, a ride to treatment or to be taught how to apply makeup, they are one of the first places you should call and several of their services are free. They can be reached at 1 (800) ACS(227)-2345 or you can go online to www.cancer.org.
If you are being physically abused, you may want to reach out to an abuse hotline in your local community, but one way or another, you need to get help immediately! I explained to one gal who refused to contact anyone if nothing else to at least remind her husband the next time that he raised his hand to her that she had new incisions internally and that by striking her he would not only incur additional medical expenses, but that it could kill her, so unless he was entertained by the thought of going to prison, he may want to think twice. I then suggested she share with him that I knew of his abuse and would be a witness to the authorities of his behavior. Someone must know what you are going through - do not think you can do this alone! If nothing else, I would suggest you visit the local bookstore for any publications on the subject of abuse, but please arm yourself with support and education - it's your best defense! You've done nothing wrong and don't deserve to be beaten for having gotten this disease. I shared with one such husband that many men are now getting Prostate Cancer and he too could be in the same position someday. How he treated his wife might be duplicated should he become ill, so to think about his behavior and remember all the great things that his wife contributed to their home over the years. By these simple words putting this situation into perspective, the man realized what a jerk he'd been and I watched his body language, tone and the look in his eyes change before me change after I'd called him out. Granted, it was a risky thing to do, but I felt it necessary in that instance to speak on behalf of the woman once I'd realized what was going on and I was very polite and tactful in my suggestive approach.
The Susan G. Koman site has some suggested reading on the subject of sharing information with your spouse and children as well, which is another topic all together. As I've already tried to drill into your head however, don't hide your situation whichever the case may be. You are going to need support!
As for intimacy, you are going to need to go the extra mile trying to muster up the energy and the timing of course will be crucial. If you're physically capable, try to plan ahead and around your chemo-treatments some time for your significant other that he or she can look forward to. Also keep in mind that actual love making is not the only option and communication is a MUST. And while you may not be looking your all time best, you are still beautiful inside and out. Half of it is attitude! If you feel intimidated, then wait until you can turn the lights out. Try something new so you can turn this into an adventure you're endeavoring into together. Some women opt for implants if this is something the two of you feel is essential, in which case, remind him that those are soon to come, but for now, you still have eachother and you can grow closer and bond more than ever before by pulling together. When you said your vows, it was in sickness and in health. Anyone can make it through the easy times. It's times like these that the tough get going, so make suggestions, plan your date calendar and discuss your options. In the event your spouse is abusive and you're not sure what to do, I recommend trying to get your spouse into counseling and if nothing else, you need to join a good support group that may be able to offer some alternative solutions. The number for the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233. If your children are being abused, one site to visit is www.childhelp.org
So chin up, positive attitude, say to yourself each day "I AM beautiful", you are worthy and you are going to win this battle come what may!
People think of the awareness ribbon as a means of letting others know that cancer exists and to make them "aware". I look it the ribbon as my team symbol. We are all sisters in cancer and as part of your family and team, I will be on the side lines cheering you on and praying for you!
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2. Take notes and keep them in a binder. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Make sure you have all the necessary details from your insurance provider as well and keep copies of all your appointments, prescriptions, etc. in your binder - You may need them later!

3. Make preparations both at work and home for time off and recovery. Don’t worry about petty details. Right now you need to focus on your health and everything else can and will wait for you.

4. When you are ready, tell others that you feel need to know about your situation as well. Many people will want to help you – let them! Others that you normally rely on may not be able to handle the situation. Don’t let this upset you – everyone deals with these situations differently and it doesn’t mean they don’t care for you. This is also a good time to inform your pastor. If you have memberships to gyms, etc. you may want to inform them as well. Some companies will allow you to put your memberships on hold so you don’t get charged during the time you’re not able to attend.

5. This might be a good time to consider automatic bill paying, preparing a living trust and any other relevant legal situations that need attending to. Ask for help from your spouse and family if needed. They will feel needed, trusted and important, so allow them this if you don’t feel up to it.

6. Make sure you have your comfort items, extra sleepwear, eye masks, skincare, etc. purchased in advance as well as wigs and any other items you may not feel up to shopping for after you’ve started treatments. The sooner you are able to accept the situation and begin working through it, the sooner you’ll be done with it and this will eliminate some of the stress.

7. Find a support group, food delivery service, a maid or gardener if needed, someone to watch your dogs, sit for your children and any other items that will need tending to. This is not a time to try and be superhuman, so save your energy for recovering.

8. Books, movies and music, as well as some hobbies, will help to pass the time, so be sure to have whatever you think you may need or want in advance.

9. If chemotherapy is part of your regimen, you’ll want to visit your dentist in advance for special toothpaste and mouthwash, which will help with some of the side effects. Also, for dehydration, sea salt with minerals works well.

10. Don’t worry about things such as sending people Thank You cards if you’re not feeling up to it. Everyone will understand your situation, so again, try not to worry and focus on yourself right now. To spoil yourself, register online at www.chemoangels.com to receive special gifts during treatments!

11. Don’t inundate yourself needlessly by spending hours on the internet. Too much information can be overwhelming. Your doctors, knowing your exact type of cancer and situation, will be your best resources. For additional information and services however, such as transportation to your appointments, the American Cancer Society is an excellent resource. Their web address is www.cancer.org and their phone number is 1 800 ACS-2345.

Additional Suggestions

Many people have mentioned the benefits of eating Organic - food not having been treated by pesticides. Foods that one should not eat/drink are as follows:

Red meat
Any food injected with hormones! ie Some brands of chicken
White Flour
Sugar
Trans Fats - Hydrogenated Soy bean oil
Alcohol
Caffeine

Suggested foods:

Broccoli & vegetables
Blueberries
Strawberries
Cantalope
Fish
Escargot
Almonds if you aren't allergic to nuts
Rooibus teas
Mangosteen Juice (Also see our Mona Vie!)
Seasalt
Water!

Steam vs. microwave any time possible. Radiation is very bad for you!

Also, keep in mind that if you are undergoing Chemotherapy, it's common for your taste buds to change somedays. This will usually pass quickly, so if something doesn't taste right certain days, just wait a couple and try it again!

Often times, you may not want to eat at all, but you NEED nutrients. If swallowing is an issue, if nothing else blended drinks, scrambled eggs, applesauce, oatmeal, soups, and mashed potatoes are easier than other foods to get down and help sustain you.
Regardless of what you do, be sure to consult with your physician!!! I can't give medical advice and only your doctor knows your exact situation and body. Everyone is different to some degree, so listen, get 2nd opinions if needed, research and apply common sense.

Household Products

Avoid the following:

Aerosols (Raid, room freshners)
Non-Organic Cleaning Agents
Candles that aren't soy/beeswax and have wicks that aren't lead free!

Check for Asbestos, mold, lead paint and any other potential cancer causing agents

If you ever aren't sure about an ingredient or chemical in your food or home, google it! You will be amazed at what you learn and realize how many harmful things you've been subjecting your body to. It's important to begin eliminating any harmful substances you can as you don't want to go through this experience only to get cancer again afterwards.

Diet, Environment, Stress and Genetics are the 4 items that have been attributed to the possible causes of cancer. Needless to say, it's a time to learn, make positive changes and live a new lifestyle. Not only will you benefit from these changes, but those around you as well.

Excercise

Even though you may not feel like it right now, something as simple as a walk around the block can be helpful - doctor allowing.

Spiritual

Last, but certainly not least, we suggest prayer! If nothing else, call a church and ask them to put you on their prayer list!
Miracles happen everyday, so lift your head up, smile and Believe!




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During that 18-month struggle, the breast cancer survivor vowed to help other women as they combat one of the leading causes of death among women, as well as assist fellow survivors.

For more of this story, click here.



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